Sunday, June 2, 2013

May 31: Reflection Day


First, I’m going to tell you about the dream I had last night/very early this morning.  The reason I thought about this is because this one girl in my group is taking Melofloquin (a type of malaria prophylaxis) which can give you hallucinations.  She hasn’t had any hallucinations, but she has been having weird dreams.  Last night I had a weird dream, so I’m going to share it with you… It was slope day at Cornell.  The slope was covered in trees and at the bottom of the slope were a bunch of hot tubs and pools.  I was in one of the hot tubs with some of my friends, but mostly random people.  Someone called me on the phone (I’m not exactly sure who) and they asked me to leave the slope.  However, it was midday on slope day… why would I leave?  Randomly, all the trees on the slope started to blow up one-by-one.  Every time a tree blew up, a fire took its place.  Then, there was hail coming from the sky.  Or so we all thought.  But really, they were giant ice cubes being shot out of cannons…by the professors.  It was actually really scary and everyone started to panic and get out of the hot tubs and pools.  The only way to escape was to run up the slope, which was difficult because the professors would just aim those ice ball cannons at us.  I was running up the slope with my friend Alex Kelly who doesn’t even go to Cornell, and finally we got to the top.  We held onto railings (the slope doesn’t even have railings) and we somehow managed to avoid the ice cubes.  When we arrived at the top of the slope, Willard Straight was the only building in site.  We thought we would be safe in there, but really it was a place where the professors held everyone hostage.  So, I was held hostage in Willard Straight.  I thought I was going to die, and then realized it was all a dream and forced myself to wake up.  The end.  Then I looked to my left and Adrienne was also awake.  It was 7:30am.  That’s what I call sleeping in on a Friday morning.  We have been getting up before 7am every day this week. 

Almost the whole class!

We got to school around 8:45 and had thirty minutes of wi-fi before class started (class starts at 9:15 on Wednesdays and Fridays).  Today, the remaining 3 groups gave their case-study presentations.  The presentations were all really good, and again I learned a lot.  After the presentations, we went to Jacob’s Well Canteen for lunch.  Grace and I shared rice with vegetables.  It was just Grace, Becca, and me at a table for lunch and it was really nice to get to know the two of them a little better.  After lunch, we went back to the classroom for some internet and to check in with Becca (a different Becca--our TA who just arrived last night) and let her know how everything has been going.  Then, everyone went home to drop our stuff off real quickly and we walked to Dr. Stacey Langwick’s house as a group.  Every Friday is reflection Friday.  Dr. Langwick had a very nice house, and it was great to hear everyone’s thoughts on the week so far. 

My case study group minus Masuma


 I’ll touch on a few things that I had to say.  Firstly, I absolutely love my homestay.  Mama and Delke are both so nice.  Mama is really funny too.  She likes to refer to herself in third person a lot and it cracks me up—“Mama likes beer.”  “Beer makes mama warm. Mama like food. Food make mama fat.  Mama gonna make her daughters fat.”  (Adrienne and I are her daughters).  It’s hilarious.  One day she was showing us pictures in an album—“This is mama.  Here mama on her birthday.  Last year daughters give mama cake.”  Second, everyone else in the compound is very welcoming and friendly.  Whenever we get home from school, all the little kids run up to us and give us hugs.  Then they hold our hands and walk us into the house.  All the moms in the compound say hi to us too.  It’s not just mama who greets us, but everyone else does.  And it’s more than just a greeting.  They seem like they genuinely care how our day is going and what we are up to.  I’ve noticed a strong sense of unity that we don’t have back in the states.  An example that I used during the reflection session: back at Cornell, not everyone says hi to you.  In fact, hardly anyone says hi.  You can be walking past someone who you recognize and have definitely seen out at parties, and have maybe even talked to before.  But sometimes those people will look down at their phone when they’re passing by you, or look down at the ground if their phone isn’t handy.  People will do anything to avoid eye contact, and avoid any awkward hello’s.  Here, that is totally unheard of.  Almost every stranger says hi to you, and absolutely no one looks away.  I haven’t said hi to everyone I’ve walked by, but I’ve definitely at least smiled at everyone.  So, that’s something that is very different.  Lastly, I shared one thing that I learned this week.  Yesterday, when I was talking to Mesha, I asked him which tribe he was.  He told me his mother was a part of the Chaaga tribe and his father was a part of the Sumaki (that’s definitely not right… but something like that) tribe.  Therefore, he was part of the Sumaki tribe.  He told me that if your parents are a part of different tribes, the children always take the tribe of their father.  New fact! 

Lodoe, Henry, Grace, Ume, Me (Fun fact: Ume means penis in Swahili)

Yeah... when she introduced herself, all the KCMC students started laughing.  Apparently it means something very peaceful in Nigeria.  But definitely not here.  

            
After our reflection session, we got picked up by cabs and taken to Moshi Club.  We met all the KCMC students there and had food and drinks.  It was a lot of fun and everyone got to know each other better.  I think we tried all the popular beers.  We had Kilimanjaro, Tusker, Castle, and Safari.  In order from favorite to least favorite for me: Kilimanjaro, Castle, Safari, Tusker.  It was def a good time!



Highlight of my day:  Getting to know all the KCMC students in a setting outside of the classroom! 

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